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When teens pull away

Eye-rolls, closed doors, one-word answers, or an outright "I hate you." These guides help you work out what's going on and what to do about it, starting with the one most parents search for first.

My teenager hates me: why it happens, what's normal, and how to reconnect It feels personal, and it hurts. Here's how to tell normal pulling away from a damaged relationship or a warning sign, and what to say and do next.
My teenage son hates me: why boys pull away, and what actually helps Why teenage boys pull away, often from their mothers most of all, what's normal and what isn't, and how to reach a son who won't let you in.
My teenage daughter hates me: why she's so mean to you, and how to reconnect Why teenage daughters push their mothers away, why she can be kind to everyone but you, and how to rebuild things without a big showdown.
My teenager won't talk to me: silence, shut doors, and how to get through Your teen shuts you out or stays in their room all day. How to tell privacy from avoidance or a warning sign, and what gets teenagers talking again.
When your teenager doesn't care: about you, about consequences, or about anything "Whatever" can mean three different things. How to tell which one you're dealing with, why consequences stop working, and whether to insist on family time.
When your teenager is making you miserable: what's happening to you, and what helps Parenting a hostile or withdrawn teen can leave you exhausted, resentful or low. Why that happens, why it doesn't make you a bad parent, and what helps.